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What Do I Put On My Online Dating Profile?

 

If you’ve decided to take the digital journey to personal connection and have joined an online dating site, then you may have already encountered one of the biggest anxieties regarding online dating--what the heck are you supposed to put in your profile?

It’s funny in a way; we as human beings love to talk about ourselves. We LOVE it. We spend more than half of our daily conversations talking about ourselves and around 80 percent of communications on social media sharing our experiences, thoughts, and dreams with anyone who will read along.

If this sounds like you, don’t worry; this is completely normal! In fact, research studies have been conducted on the topic, revealing that the areas of our brains that deal with pleasure and motivation (which are activated by stimuli like sex or delicious food) are the same areas activated by talking about ourselves. In other words, we enjoy it!

So, why do we have such a hard time writing up things like online dating profiles? Well, the simple answer isn’t really all that simple: it’s hard. You’re being asked to describe yourself within a certain amount of allotted space, and this will be the only bit of information other singles have to go on. This is what people will have to get to know who you are. That’s a lot of pressure to put on one little profile.

We want to put our best selves out there, but we don’t want to brag or lie. How do you know what to include and what to leave out? How can you possibly be true to yourself when you’re choosing exactly what other singles get to know about you and what they don’t? Online dating profiles, to say the least, are tricky.

Luckily for you, we have a scientifically-backed solution. Clueless, Dateless, Loveless is the book you need to push your online dating profile over the top. The method in this book is designed to work for everyone regardless of sex or age, so get your copy today for truly effective online dating advice from professionals Sameer Chaudhry M.D. and Prof. Khalid S. Kahn M.Med., MRCOG, MSc, FCPS, MBBS, FRCOG, FHEA.

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